God gave us emotions to experience life, not destroy it Lysa TerKeurst admits that she, like most women, has had experiences where others bump into her happy and she comes emotionally unglued We stuff, we explode, or we react somewhere in between What do we do with these raw emotions Is it really possible to make emotions work for us instead of against us Yes, and inGod gave us emotions to experience life, not destroy it Lysa TerKeurst admits that she, like most women, has had experiences where others bump into her happy and she comes emotionally unglued We stuff, we explode, or we react somewhere in between What do we do with these raw emotions Is it really possible to make emotions work for us instead of against us Yes, and in her usual inspiring and practical way, Lysa will show you how Filled with gut honest personal examples and biblical teaching, Unglued will equip you to Know with confidence how to resolve conflict in your important relationships Find peace in your most difficult relationships as you learn to be honest but kind when offended Identify what type of reactor you are and how to significantly improve your communication Respond with no regrets by managing your tendencies to stuff, explode, or react somewhere in between Gain a deep sense of calm by responding to situations out of your control without acting out of control.
Unglued Making Wise Choices in the Midst of Raw Emotions God gave us emotions to experience life not destroy it Lysa TerKeurst admits that she like most women has had experiences where others bump into her happy and she comes emotionally unglued We stuff
I think Lysa is a 5 out of 5 kind of lady She communicates well and you feel like your talking to a friend while reading her book I really appreciated her honesty and could relate on pretty much every point I think I may also be her emotional twin But I couldn t give her book than a 2 out of 5 because it just felt like it lacked something I m not a fan of how to books and she often said things like, I need a go to script or I need a response template And then precedes to share hers She never me [...]
I admit I had no idea what to expect from this book when I picked it up The djs on the radio station I listen to had been talking about it a lot so when I saw it on the new arrivals shelf at my library I grabbed it That turned out to be a great decision Unglued is a really good book and Lysa TerKeurst is a gifted writer I couldn t wait to sneak in a few minutes of reading here and there throughout the day Lysa makes you feel like you re having a conversation with your best friend The idea of imp [...]
This book spoke to me in the ways I needed, right when I needed it Talk about divine intervention And because I listened to the audio version, I literally got to hear Lysa s voice right in my head So many helpful tips, presented in not a holier than thou, but in a I m right there with you, sort of way I so admire Lysa TerKeurst s lack of pride that allows her to share her not so great moments with us, so we can feel like we re not alone If I had one criticism, it would be that the book makes it [...]
This book was wonderful I had the privilege of listening to Lysa TerKeurst speak at a conference and when she mentioned this book I immediately came home and checked to see if it was available We all have those moments when we lose it or need to lose it We feel our blood pressure spike and we know that any second we will become Unglued God made us that way and instead of condemning us, TerKeurst gives us hope, teaching us it s about the imperfect progress we make that matters Reading this book w [...]
Why did I choose this book Because I needed some wisdom about surviving a chaotic life And, I wasn t disappointed.In Unglued Making Wise Choices in the Midst of Raw Emotions by Lysa Terkeurst, you ll read the authors personal time of coming unglued as well as stories she witnessed She takes these chaotic times, pulls wisdom from the Bible and offers sound advice on trusting God.Lysa Terkeurst writes to her reader in a genuine, conversational style You will connect with her immediately and discov [...]
This is a good, not great, book about how to respond effectively when you get triggered into anger or frustration by those around you There is a helpful section at the end that helps you understand better how you process those triggers However, in looking at the chart, I have discovered that my responses are all over the map depending on who is giving me the trigger One particularly helpful point is that when someone irritates you or something doesn t go your way, you can choose to respond with [...]
Living a life holy unto the Lord is lifelong lesson, but I think the author forgets the central message of the gospel that is that while we were still sinners, Christ came and lived a sinless life for us, was sacrificed and raised from the dead, that God would then be able to impute Christ s righteousness on us Sanctification is not proved by how many times in a day we end up shaming ourselves but by the pure and simple fact that when we are aware of our guilt, we know that we can and do go to t [...]
My mind is unglued most of the time I think Reading this book made me feel not so alone in my ungluedness It also gave me hope that there was a way to glue my mind back together It also gave me a stockpile of helpers to get me through those unglued moments hope and healing for women struggling to make wise choices in the midst of their raw emotions She shows how to positively process reactive emotions that come from situations all women face daily.Lysa has an amazing way of sharing Biblical trut [...]
Great Advice For Controlling EmotionsAnd Not Letting Them Control YouAs only Lysa can, she writes in a humorous, genuine style to show you her flaws and her triumphs at being all that God has planned for her to be Her latest book, Unglued Making Wise Choices In the Midst of Raw Emotions, provides a few real world anecdotes of times where she s lost it and how she s learned to find a Godly response to those situations Lysa talks about the four different kinds of unglued reactions 1 The Exploder [...]
As frontwoman of Proverbs 31 Ministries, referring to the wife of noble charachter, you might expect Lysa Terkeurst to be some kind of perfect Fortunately, she s as human as the rest of her fellow men and women around In her latest book Unglued Making Wise Choices in the Midst of Raw Emotions she shares some of her progressions while staying imperfect Raw emotions are those feelings we hide from others but take out on those we love most Anger, stubbornness, unwillingness to listen, impatience, e [...]
I have never read a self help Christian book I was drawn in by the dedication What happens in between the smiling snapshots of life isn t pretty I m willing to admit that And I love my friends who are brave enough to admit the messy stuff as well Once I realized it was a Christian life book, it was too late for me to stop I have this weird compulsion to finish any book I start Damn So, here it goesI ll read it with an open mind.
Wow, I think she has a spycam in my house life Really appreciated the honest insights about dealing with issues and stress in various destructive ways and how to take those thoughts captive and work towards changing my reaction.
Some parts had too much story, or too much psychology tendencies for my tastes, but still I always find something of encouragement when reading anything Lysa writes whether from her books, blog posts, or facebook notes and Unglued was no exception My favorite chapter was on how to deal with those unglued moments of jealousy, which for me can rise up at the most unexpected times when I m unprepared for them and leave me, as she mentions, feeling empty Her tips for handling those jealous emotions [...]
If you re looking for a devotional for your book club or just thinking of making a New Year s resolution about cooling your hot head, check out Lysa TerKeurst s Unglued Making Wise Choice in the Midst of Raw Emotions I appreciate TerKeurst for her no nonsense, authentic approach to just about anything her last book, Made to Crave was about eating and overeating She s real and flawed, just like me She opens Unglued with a personal story about going berserk on her kids when she finds wet towels on [...]
Something funky happens when you try to get it all together in your own strength For me, it doesn t last long before a daily crisis sneaks up on me and leaves me feeling unglued Lysa s book is perfect for a gal like me, despite the fact that I was turned off by the cover and my own denial I soon found that like my friend Angie, whose stellar recommendation of this book finally led me to pick it up, I had pages dog eared than not not literally, poor book I would never Lysa s words were funny, ra [...]
I wish I could give this 6 stars I loved this book Not because Lysa gave me all the answersbut she had places to look for those answersd they were there I loved her crazy life She s real She isn t perfect Who among us is She tackled some tough issuesbut she talks about imperfect progress What a great term Isn t all progress imperfect But the fact that we are tryingd seeing some kind of progress while it may be imperfect for the fact that we all back slide occasionally is good I will need to buy [...]
The author agrees with me, every woman has those moments where she is frustrated with everything that is happening around her You want to change your attitude or reaction but you feel like it just doesn t get any better This book is about ways to accept that there will be no over night change and that we are all a work in progress.The author calls this progress imperfect progress because we are moving forward in changing ourselves but there is no automatic change We need to remember that we are [...]
I listened to this book as part of the 2016 VT Reading Challenge I needed to read a book targeted at the other gender and got this one free at some point Lysa gets one star for reading her own book, which I always enjoy She gets one star for her brutal honesty and for being a great story teller She has some really crazy stories to tell On the other hand, much of the book sounded like an extended Facebook status update with lots of silly slang that really got on my nerves after a while There is n [...]
I wish I could have read this book 20 years ago I have always struggled with being real honest in my emotions vs being sensitive and in control Lysa TerKeurst does a fantastic job of peeling away the layers of emotion that are behind my coming unglued and getting me to what my real goal should be representing Jesus to this world, to every person I meet every moment of every day I am not here to prove I am smarter or powerful or in the right than the next person issues, I learned through this b [...]
I m wondering if I need to be unglued to have appreciated this book I read halfway through and had to just stop reading I m not trying to judge her, but I can t understand an adult who s emotions are that out of control for insignificant reasons Yes, I know there are a lot of adults who are the self proclaimed emotional mess the author claims to be, but professional counseling anyone If she gets her act together by the end of the book I don t know, but I pray for her family s and friends sake sh [...]
I cannot tell you how much this book, and the author s honesty, has changed my thoughts about who I am Thank you I can t stop crying as I read because I see, I m not crazy I m not the only woman in the world who acts this way Accusations thrown my way on a daily basis.
I laughed and cried my way through this book Lysa has a way of just getting to the nitty gritty and letting Jesus do the rest I really enjoyed her perspective and the book was exactly what I needed to read I wasn t even finished before I started recommending it to friends.
3.5 Stars I read this with a small group women from my church and we had some very in depth discussions about this book.
Have you ever lost control of your emotions over the tiniest thing Maybe it s losing that extra 5 minutes of quiet that you so desperately needed Or maybe a child breaks your sunglasses, and you completely explode on him or her Maybe a dish burns during a holiday family dinner, and you just can t control the streaming tears on your face Coming unglued is never a pretty sight, and we have all had experiences where a small thing sets off the waiting volcano of emotions in our hearts In her latest [...]
Knihu s ve kou rados ou odpor am Okrem in ho v s ak nie len zauj mav tanie, ale i prekr sne spracovanie cel ho diela Ka d jedna strana vo mne vzbudzovala dobr dojem a bolo c ti , e spisovate ka je ve mi milou, sympatickou a v nimo nou enou Lysa TerKeurstov svojim dielom Vyveden z miery pom e nejednej z v s vidie vlastn hodnotu a k tomu v etk mu uk e, ako svoje z porn pocity m eme zveri Bohu a v aka nemu ich zmeni v nov , s n dychom l sky A predsa len, v aka l ske n s u z miery ni nem e vyvies.
Emotions aren t bad I ve seen this book going around for awhile It went on sale for a Kindle a few months back I downloaded it forgot I had it.Until I saw a friend of mine who was reading it, I remembered She talked about how she would have to take each chapter digest it now, I know what she means.I ended up writing down 5 pages of notes from this book If it was in book form, I would have been a highlight queen I wasn t even sure what it meant by the word unglued oh, I know what it meant, but I [...]
Have you had one of those days where you wake up, feeling good, and ready for the dayd then.ose big words Your kids are fighting, the dog chewed your phone cord, and your car won t start and you come UNGLUED I hate to admit it, but I have certainly had those days Lysa gives practical, spiritual tools in her book for women to use when these events cause to explode or say something unkind when we re just stressed We don t actually mean those words Do you ever feel jealous of other women who seem t [...]
So, to be honest, I have heard this woman on the radio for years and her voice simply grates on me I really haven t ever processed much of what she has said on those spots because of that So shallow of me, I know However, this summer a good friend of mine worked as an intern for this ministry and she had so many wonderful things to say I found the kindle book through my library and thought I would give it a try The really funny thing is, I thought I didn t really need it I usually keep myself pr [...]
It was so hard to get through I m not perfect but Lord have mercy She seems to be unglued at the slightest of things and my mental images of her household are like it s chaotic all the time There are just too many stories which I don t mind but when the point of the book becomes muddled to share another story eyeroll it becomes hard to chew I ve already read 2x in this one book that her husband owns a chick fila Awesome congrats but what does that have to do with this About 4 5 pages about getti [...]
Just as a light that fails to come on when the switch is flipped may indicate a wiring problem, coming unglued may indicate a problem with our internal wiring Outward expressions are internal indications If our outward expressions are unglued, there s some brokenness internally Broken places we won t address unless we are forced to acknowledge their existence Even though I don t tend to come outwardly unglued, I found a lot of great insight into myself in this book by Lysa TerKeurst She openly t [...]